public, cuz theres always a chance theres no bathroom, a long line, or the the other guy is taking too long.
private too easy to resolve.
I dunno. Both I guess. As long as desperation is involved, I really don't care. But if i had to pick, public would be more believable as private tends to be done with the girl getting horny off of it, which pretty much ruins it fo me.
Public, the more ways it can go wrong the better
Definitely public. It always adds extra tension to the story, which I like more than the more laid-back, sensual story a private FD would be.
Any desp is good, but public is more exciting. There can be interesting shame in a home envirnment, though...
I preffer the desperation in public it more beliveable to me
Both are good, but private stories seem harder to write while staying somewhat realistic.
I like the idea of the girl trying to hide her desperation in public though.
Depends. Both can be interesting, in my opinion.
public, of course. I really like it when a girl have an accident in front of many people. The shameful expression on her face is priceless!
Private, on the other hand, usually have something to do with the girl doing it on purpose, since she's at home, and probably no one is around. And I don't really enjoy that..
i practice private desperation and i enjoy it a lot
Public, although either one if I can get it, hehe. But with public, it might lead to the girl crying of humiliation. I also have a "fetish" (I guess that's the word but it's more of a fancy) for girls crying, not out of cruelty, I just like the look.
I love public desperation, especially if the girl is trying to hide it. And then, when she can't hold on anymore and there is nowhere private to go, I love it when she just goes and she's so discrete about it that no one knows what she is doing. I've seen a few really great videos where girls wearing skirts just peed quietly into bus seats or sat in the grass with their legs together and just let it out where no bypassers could see.
Love it.
I think both are good in their own ways, they each have their own elements.
i prefer private.
I like public because like people have said the situation is more likely to end with the girl wetting her self in public then it is in private, also I feel public adds options and situations that caused the girl to be desperate and more ways to prevent her from finding relief. Also, is she is seen in public it adds an even greater humiliation aspect to it which I also have a fetish for.
To break it up into a simple mathematical formula to understand it goes like this.
Desperate girl + Wet/messy panties + public humiliation = win x 3
Desperate girl + wet/messy panties - public humiliation = win x 2
win x 3 > win x 2
= public desperation is better then private desperation.
Also, unlike most people here my interest lies more in the end result of wet or messy panties and less in the desperation part. (desperation is an important part however because I prefer legitimate wetting and pooping over faked and badly acted desperation or the girl in question peeing or pooping just because they like it and to be legitimate the girl usually needs to be desperate first.)
It really doesn't matter, so long as she's desperate. ^_^
Both are good, public because it can create so many different scenes and private because it can involve a personal aspect of it as well.
public definately but not in a stupid way like being naked in public :censored:
either way is fine! Its still cute no matter whcih place she is at... but public is more fun cuz people give you funny stares!!!
Public la...
Feel it's more interesting
Public! Of course, public. Who gets genuinely desperate at home? Then again, I sometimes enjoy watching girls hold :).
Public
Unless there's two girls having a holding competition or something...
Personally I tend to go for "public." I'm more into situational stuff, and a girl out in public, trying to hide her growing desperation and trying to find somewhere to go before it's too late is much stronger than a girl in her own home. At least at home she can usually find somewhere else to go (for example, going in a bottle in her bedroom if the bathroom is occupied) so there's not so much tension.
But it all depends on the situation. If a girl is tied up in a basement and told to hold it until she's set free or face a spanking, that's a wholly different matter - that's quite sexy ;)
It's hard for me to say. I like the idea of wetting in public, I guess the embarrassment associated with it turns me on, but then, I also like being the only one who got to see it...
The thought of losing it in public is much more embarrassing, but funner to watch because you know that person is trying all that they can to hold it in before publically humiliating themselves.
Quote from: Admon on October 08, 2008, 04:28:11 PM
It's hard for me to say. I like the idea of wetting in public, I guess the embarrassment associated with it turns me on, but then, I also like being the only one who got to see it...
Yeah, I definitely agree. Although it depends on what is "in private" then. Because if it's a girlfriend or whatever that does it on purpose while you're alone, that's kind of silly. But if it's just a situation where you and some girl happen to be in an isolated place and she wets herself, I like the idea of her having to place utmost trust in you to keep it a secret. It would definitely build an intimate bond.
id have to say privately gives u more choices on what to do with her but public leads to more embarassment and i find that thats the main reason im into this :-/
Well i guess i prefer public, but in a private sort of way. If there are other people around shes more likely to show how desperate she is, like if shes in a empty hallway or something. And if she doesn't just squat, it means she probably couldn't stand the thought of doing something so dirty and peeing on the ground.
...In private only if there is trust and acceptance, or in public only if there is resignation and acceptance. Of course in fantasy....... :)
For me it's public desperation...something about knowing I'm being watched :drool:
Gotta go with public here. More chance of an accident here since the abundance of bathrooms at home don't lead to much. Unless we're talking about a hold-it contest, then it's private all the way.
I must answer public. The delightful humiliation of a girl wetting herself out in public is one you can't enjoy in the privacy of your own home. Yeah, she'll still be embarrassed, but it's not the same.
Private situations looks less spontaneous to me... I prefer genuine desperation due to the impossibility to find a toilet.
I like when its private, but public works fine for me too. I think it's really sexy when a girl gets horny off of it too.
Either floats my boat.
Private can include wetting the bed and other interesting objects and situations.
Public has embarassment and more urgency.
For my own personal desperation moments, I do them at home.
I like public better because the person has a much harder time resolving the problem of being desperate. Being in public also forces them to try and hold it long with means longer desperation.
Hmm, I think there should be a distinction between "public" and "outdoors", and between "private" and "indoors". I guess the best for me would be "outdoors", but not like, sitting in the middle of the classroom. I don't like the humiliation part really.
Better would be something like, walking home through a quiet street but not making it in time, or being inside an elevator that gets stuck. Something like that.
its hard to decide, but i really think it depends how well it is done. if your into public you can still enjoy a good private if it is done really well (and the girl doesn't get off afterwards).